The Art of Sabr: How to Stay Patient & Positive During Ramadaan
Ramadaan is a month of immense blessings, reflection, and spiritual growth. But let’s be real—it also comes with its fair share of challenges. From hunger and fatigue to managing daily responsibilities while fasting, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.
That’s where sabr (patience) comes in. Patience isn’t just about waiting; it’s about maintaining a positive attitude while enduring hardships. And in Ramadaan, sabr is key to making the most of this sacred month. So how can we cultivate patience, stay positive, and make our ibadah (worship) more meaningful? Let’s dive in!
What is Sabr & Why Is It So Important in Ramadaan?
Sabr is often translated as patience, but in Islam, it’s much deeper than that. It means:
- Resilience in hardship – Handling hunger, thirst, and fatigue with a calm heart.
- Self-control – Resisting anger, frustration, or negativity.
- Trust in Allah’s plan – Accepting life’s difficulties with faith.
Ramadaan is the perfect time to strengthen our sabr because we are constantly tested—whether it’s resisting food and drink, controlling our temper, or staying motivated in worship.
How to Develop Sabr & Stay Positive During Ramadaan
1. Change Your Mindset: See Fasting as an Opportunity, Not a Burden
Instead of focusing on what you’re “missing” (food, coffee, sleep), shift your mindset. Think of fasting as a spiritual detox—a chance to cleanse your soul, strengthen your willpower, and deepen your connection with Allah.
2. Start Your Day with a Positive Intention
A powerful way to cultivate sabr is to start each fast with a clear, heartfelt intention: “I am fasting today for the sake of Allah, and I will strive to be patient and positive.” This simple affirmation can help set the tone for your entire day.
3. Manage Hunger & Fatigue Wisely
- Suhoor is key – Eat a balanced meal with slow-digesting foods (oats, dates, bananas) to keep your energy levels steady.
- Stay hydrated – Drink plenty of water between Iftar and Suhoor to avoid irritability from dehydration.
- Get enough rest – Lack of sleep can make patience harder, so prioritise rest where possible.
4. Control Your Reactions: Pause Before Responding
Fasting is not just about avoiding food—it’s about controlling our behaviour. If something annoys you (kids acting up, a rude comment), pause before reacting. Remind yourself: “This is my test of sabr.”
Take a deep breath. Smile. Walk away if needed. Responding with calmness instead of frustration is an act of worship in itself.
5. Keep Your Tongue Busy with Dhikr
The best way to stay positive? Keep your tongue and heart engaged in dhikr (remembrance of Allah).
- Recite SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar
- Send salawat (blessings) upon the Prophet ﷺ
- Read or listen to Qur’an whenever you feel impatient
Dhikr not only calms your mind but also fills your fast with blessings.
6. Focus on Gratitude: List 3 Blessings Daily
A simple but effective habit—each day in Ramadaan, list three things you are grateful for. It could be as small as a kind word from a friend or as big as the ability to fast. Gratitude shifts your focus from hardship to contentment, making patience easier.
7. Make Du’a for Patience & Strength
Ramadaan is the month of du’a. Ask Allah for help in developing sabr:
“Ya Allah, grant me patience, strength, and a heart that finds peace in Your decree.”
No matter how hard things get, remember that Allah sees your struggles, and He rewards those who persevere.
The Reward of Sabr in Ramadaan
Patience in fasting is rewarded immensely. Every moment of hardship—hunger, thirst, fatigue—earns us rewards. The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Fasting is a shield; so the one observing fasting should avoid foul speech and ignorant behaviour. If someone fights with him or abuses him, he should say: ‘I am fasting.’” (Bukhari)
This hadith reminds us that fasting is not just about abstaining from food but also about refining our character. The more sabr we show, the greater our reward.
Final Thoughts: Ramadaan is Temporary, But Its Rewards are Eternal
Ramadaan may feel long when we’re in the middle of it, but before we know it, it will be over. Every moment of patience, every time you hold back frustration, every small effort to remain positive—it all adds up.
So embrace the tests of Ramadaan as opportunities for growth. With the right mindset, healthy habits, and reliance on Allah, we can cultivate sabr that lasts far beyond this month.
What’s one way you practice sabr during Ramadaan? Let’s share and learn from each other! Drop a comment below.
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